Your Wife Doesn't Love You Anymore - How to Make Your Wife Love You Again and Save Your Marriage

It can be quite tough when you realize that your wife doesn't love you anymore. It makes you remember the older days, full with love and happiness, and you can't help but compare those to the current state of your relationship. However, keep in mind that your wife loved you once and if you do the right things she will love you again - and you can take the right steps into making your marriage last forever.

It is easy to blame your wife because her feelings aren't what they used to be. However, before pointing the finger at her, I challenge you to have a look at yourself. Are you the old you? Are you treating your wife like you used to before? Are you the same person who married your wife? Your wife doesn't love you anymore, yes, but this is for a reason. And this is for a reason that you need to know. So, stop blaming her for her feelings and start trying to understand what the problems are.

To understand her feelings and thoughts, you need to talk openly. Which

brings me to my second point - often times, a couple stops talking normally and makes only small talk; because they know that any "deeper" talk will lead to a heated argument or fight. While talking less means that you can avoid fights, it destroys the relationship. You both need to know what the other is feeling - or you are going to speculate. Worse, you won't be aware of what your wife is annoyed about and might continue to annoy your wife with something you aren't even aware of. So, when your wife doesn't love you anymore, you need to provide enough space for her to talk to you.

And don't be disheartened when she harshly criticises you - don't forget, the more harsh she is, the more you are aware of what is annoying her about you, so you can fix that and become the old you. We always change but not often can we understand how we changed. If your wife doesn't love you anymore, you need to know how you changed - and what better source is there for that than your wife herself?

When trying to re-ignite the romance, some certain things you can do and say can literally force your spouse to feel the way she was when you were flirting. And doing the wrong things might make your spouse even less attracted towards you. If you want to learn how to do the former, I suggest you visit this helpful site and learn how I managed to do this myself..

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